{"id":6245,"date":"2025-02-11T20:22:06","date_gmt":"2025-02-12T01:22:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/campus.cru.org\/faculty\/?p=6245"},"modified":"2025-02-11T20:28:12","modified_gmt":"2025-02-12T01:28:12","slug":"the-professor-and-her-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/campus.cru.org\/faculty\/2025\/the-professor-and-her-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"The Professor and Her Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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My husband and I have completely different careers\u2014he crunches numbers and I punch out prose\u2014I\u2019m an English professor. The demands of our careers and our family sometimes get the best of us, and we end up offering each other our worst\u2014our depleted selves sans<\/em>\u00a0empathy,\u00a0sans<\/em>\u00a0affection,\u00a0sans<\/em>\u00a0patience.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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We\u2019ve been married long enough to know that those difficult times come with the territory of being married with children and two careers.\u00a0But knowing it doesn\u2019t make our times of conflict any less painful. Thankfully, God has placed people in our lives that help us get back on track with each other in our marriage.<\/span><\/p>

This year, when things were getting a little rough around the middle of March, my husband and I attended a\u00a0Weekend to Remember<\/em>\u00a0marriage retreat. The retreat lasted from a Friday evening to a Sunday morning, and built into the schedule were breaks that would give us the opportunity to connect, opportunities we don\u2019t always have in the midst of our busy schedules.\u00a0One of the best parts of the retreat was the Saturday evening date night. As part of his planning for the retreat, my husband arranged for us\u00a0<\/span>to go to dinner and enjoy the Nashville symphony, featuring a guest conductor who directed the orchestra in playing some of my favorites, Duke Ellington\u2019s \u201cHarlem,\u201d and George Gershwin\u2019s \u201cSecond Rhapsody.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

During the retreat, we learned one of our marriage strengths\u2014spiritual compatibility and one of our weaknesses\u2014communication (go figure).\u00a0It was people God has placed in our lives from Cru and our small group who told us about the retreat.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

In reflection, I appreciate their agreement that for me to be an effective witness for Christ on campus, my home life has to be enriched through the word of God and His Spirit.<\/span><\/blockquote>

Months later, a small group member asked to see my marriage purpose statement. In showing it to her, one part written by my husband\u00a0stood out to me. It says: \u201cOur purpose is to be united together in perpetual praise to God for His peace and presence in our family life.\u201d It references Philippians 4:4-7 which begins, \u201cAlways be full of joy in the Lord; I say it again, rejoice.\u201d It ends with \u201cHis peace will keep your thoughts and your heart quiet and at rest as you trust in Christ Jesus.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Most times our household is far from quiet, so it\u2019s hard to see God\u2019s peace reigning there. But I know that because of all that Christ has done to forgive us of sins and to bring us into harmony with Him, my husband and I can grow closer to one another as we grow closer to Jesus.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Cantice Greene<\/strong><\/h3>

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