The Top 5 Questions Students are Asking

“If you could ask God any question, what would it be?” We asked hundreds of students this question, and they came up with these five. We cannot say everything there is to say about these topics, but here is a great place to start!

1
Why Is There So Much Suffering in the World?

If God is this all-good, all-powerful being, doesn’t He have the resources to prevent evil and suffering?

Without the freedom to choose right and wrong, we would be like robots. While God does have the power to prevent suffering, He has created us with the freedom of choice. We can obey Him and live by faith doing good things, or we can disobey and do evil and thus suffer consequences of our wrong actions. And others may suffer from our evil actions as well.

Maybe the better question is, “Is there any purpose to our suffering?” The Bible shares many good results from suffering. Here are three of them:

  1. To develop character and hope: Paul tells us in Romans 5:3-4, “Suffering produces perseverance; perseverance produces character; and character produces hope.” Character is involved in the ability to handle tough situations and help others who are going through similar suffering. Hope keeps us from giving up and helps us to see how God is loving us in our present reality.
  2. To get our attention: Sometimes when we are doing the wrong thing, our Heavenly Father uses suffering to get our attention. He wants to remove everything from our lives that keeps us from walking close to Him in a love-faith relationship. Suffering, as a result of wrong behavior, can either bring us closer to Him or it can make us angry and push us away from Him. (Hebrews 12:5-11)
  3. To help us understand God: Sometimes suffering is not because of something we have done. There will be times when God allows us to suffer so we can understand how much He is in control and He is able to work in peoples’ lives. Jesus was drawn like a magnet to human grief, sorrow, and suffering; His very heart beats for the hurting. God feels hurt and compassion when we suffer, and He does not stop at empathy. Christ’s suffering on the cross for our sins proves that He understands and cares enough to step into suffering on our behalf. Even if we cannot understand the exact reason behind our suffering, we can still receive comfort and strength from a God who really understands and cares about us. (See 2 Corinthians 1.)

Sometimes when we are doing the wrong thing, our Heavenly Father uses suffering to get our attention. He wants to remove everything from our lives that keeps us from walking close to Him in a love-faith relationship.

2
Will God Really Forgive All My Sins?

Experiencing guilt is like being a live rabbit in the mouth of an enthusiastic dog. It grabs us by the back of the neck and shakes us around. We feel helpless until released from its grip.

We respond in different ways to this guilt. We beat ourselves up for being bad, try to justify our actions, or blame someone else for what happened. None of this truly gets rid of the guilt. What we need is forgiveness, either from the person we hurt or from God.

To experience the forgiveness of God, we need to accept what God says about payment for sin. God, as a righteous and perfect judge, has declared that all people who have sinned need to be punished for their crimes. Sadly, we are included, because all people have sinned.

Because of His great love and justice, God sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to earth to become a human. He lived 33 years, trained 12 men, and at the height of His popularity was crucified in Jerusalem by Roman soldiers. While Jesus hung on the cross, God the Father poured out His righteous and holy anger against sin, punishing Christ for all sins ever committed by anyone, past, present, and future.

Jesus was perfect and God was completely satisfied with Him and with His substitutionary death for us on the cross. Christ paid the full penalty for our sins, and He offers to completely forgive all our sins. All this was part of God’s plan. Our response is to accept that forgiveness. How do we do that?

  1. Confess Your Sin

Confess means to agree with God. We are agreeing with Him that our thoughts or actions were wrong and we agree that Jesus’ death on the cross covers us and that He is still forgiving us. Admitting we have done wrong brings us back into a close walk with God. Once you first come to trust Christ, you are always forgiven, but your daily relationship is hurt by your continual sins.

It’s like this with your mother. If you do something to hurt her, she will still be your mother, but your relationship with her will be strained. If you admit to her you are wrong and she forgives you, then your relationship is restored. It is similar with God. If we confess our sins to God, He can always be trusted to forgive us and take away our sins. (See 1 John 1:9.)

  1. Repent and Accept Forgiveness

To repent means to turn away from sin, to change your mind. It expresses sorrow for sin and a desire to quit doing what you have just confessed. Accepting forgiveness means we trust God forgives us just like it says in 1 John 1:9.

When we sin, we naturally want to run away from God, not towards Him. It takes faith to come back to God to confess your sins. Part of repentance is paying back people if you have stolen or broken something. If you have hurt another person, you must apologize.

Additionally, you need to forgive those who have hurt you:

If you forgive others for the wrongs they do to you, your Father in heaven will forgive you. But if you don’t forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. (Matthew 6:14-15.)
Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as God forgave you because of Christ (Ephesians 4:32).

This is the forgiveness God intends for you. The result is experiencing real happiness and freedom that comes from knowing God and having a clean conscience. He no longer views you as guilty. Your Creator is not an offended judge, He is a gentle Father (Romans 8:15).

This changes how we relate to Him! The guilt you carry can be removed. When you seek forgiveness through Christ, you move from being alienated from God to being the object of His delight!

Christ paid the full penalty for our sins and He offers to completely forgive all our sins.

3
What Does the Future Hold for Me?

It seems only natural to ask God about our future. Deep down we know God is big, awesome, and all-knowing. Why doesn’t He let us in on some of what He knows? He does, if we know where to look.

Questions about our futures should not be consumed with who we should date, what job to take, or seeking fame, but rather how our ultimate needs of love, security, recognition, and significance will be met.

To understand our future, it helps to review the past, and here we have a choice of what to believe. Either we exist as a random, impersonal result of chemical reactions over billions of years, or we were created personally and lovingly by an Almighty God who rules the universe which He created. If there really is an eternal God who created you, then two important questions follow:

  • Where will you spend eternity?
  • What is your purpose for existing here on earth?

God tells us in Paul’s letter to the Romans in the New Testament that God has given us minds and a conscience to recognize truth and make right decisions. This ability is stronger when we trust Him to forgive us.

As we place our faith and trust in Jesus, we become a new person (2 Corinthians 5:17). From that point on, we can be sure of God’s promise to us that we will spend eternity in heaven with Him. This is a result of God making us spiritually alive as we place our faith in Jesus.

God changes our hearts and attitudes and causes us to want to love and serve Him and others in ways we could not do before we knew Him. We experience peace that literally goes beyond understanding, even in the midst of difficult problems.

God gives us the stable qualities of love, joy, peace, and a tremendous security, based on His unchanging forgiveness and love, as we learn more about Him and what He wants to do in and through our lives. These are the real needs and desires for which we all long.

Look at all the things around you that were designed by humans to make your life a little easier. All were made for a specific purpose. Your phone works best as a phone, not a small rectangular shovel. It operates best when used according to the original designer’s plans.

You are worth much more than your phone. God designed you for a specific purpose and knows exactly what you need. We, as God’s beloved children, exist to know God, to make Him known, and to be satisfied in His love forever.

What does the future hold for you? You really do not want the timeline of your life spelled out in the dirt; rather, you want to know everything is going to be all right. And with God, it will be ultimately. Why? Because He made you and He cares for you.

While you may not know what the future holds, you can know God is the one who holds the future and He is good (Jeremiah 29:11-12). Through prayer, study of the Bible, listening to the Holy Spirit, participation in church, and fellowship with other Christians, God will actively guide the decisions you will make as you trust and rely on Him daily.

God does not want you to impress Him with good deeds--He wants to be in a loving relationship with you.

4
What Does God Want From Me?

As we think about God, it seems inevitable that we will ask Him, “What in the world do You really want from me?” However, we run into a problem when we think about who God is compared to who we are.

God is perfect; He does not and cannot do evil, and He is always totally fair. This means He is holy. The problem comes when we realize this is also what God requires of us. He states quite clearly in the Bible, “Be holy as I am holy.” (See 1 Peter 1:16.)

We actually need God to be perfect. If not, then what would our lives be like if, whenever God spoke to His creation, all His decrees would now be open for revision and updates?

Here’s our deeper problem: If God really is good, then He has no option but to exercise His wrath and judgment on those who sin. That is a big problem. Remember, if God is holy and pure, then He cannot stand to be in the presence of evil.

So, God’s perfection does three things:

  1. It tells us what God is like and that we can actually trust God even more because we know His love and forgiveness never changes.
  2. It keeps us from self-destructing. God’s standard of perfection actually benefits all of us. Without rules and order in the world, we would self-destruct in a short amount of time.
  3. It shows us our need for God. God is the only one who can provide a solution for the problem of our falling short of God’s perfect standard. Our sin and its destructive consequences hurt and damage people, but we do not really understand the impact of sin until we recognize that it hurts God most of all.

Once we fully grasp from what God has saved us, an attitude of thankfulness and service to God will be a natural response. God does not want you to impress Him with good deeds; He wants to be in a loving relationship with you.

As you begin to more fully embrace what it is that God has already done for you, can you see the original question, “What does God want from me?” becomes, “What do I get to do for God?”

As you walk by faith, you will be thrilled God has something far better in store than what you could have ever imagined. His love and forgiveness and the power He releases in our lives when we trust Him are the proof.

In fact, as you share your personal story of trusting God and seeing Him work, someone may be more inclined to trust Him as well. You can use our worksheet to help you share how God has changed your life! 

5
Aren’t All Religions the Same?

Devoted followers of all religions should go to heaven, correct? Let’s look at a few major world faith systems: Hinduism, New Age, Buddhism, Islam, and Christianity. Each of these religions has sects with differing beliefs, but let’s take a brief look at a central belief of each.

  • Hindus believe in 300,000+ gods.
  • Buddhists say there is no deity.
  • New Age followers believe they are god.
  • Muslims believe in one powerful but detached god.
  • Christians believe in a God who is loving and approachable.

In looking at these major belief systems and their views of God, we find tremendous diversity. Obviously, it is not logical to say all these claims are equally true, because different religions claim things which contradict the claims of other religions.

You are welcome to read read more about these religions, but a key distinctive of Christianity is God welcomes us into a relationship with Him. He is an all-powerful God who does not distance Himself from us, but Who loves us.

In other religions, a person has a relationship with teachings, ideas, paths, or rituals. In Christianity, a person has a relationship with the loving and all-powerful God. He welcomes you to know Him, to experience His joy, and to have confidence in Him in the midst of life’s challenges.

God yearns to adopt us as His children. He sent His son, Jesus, to pay the penalty for our sin and give us His Spirit to make us into a new kind of people. Think how much the Father loves us! He loves us so much that He provided a way back to Him so we could be called His children. (See 1 John 3:1.)

In Christianity, anyone can begin a relationship with God. It is as simple as recognizing that you have been going your own way in life, asking God for His forgiveness, and surrendering your life to Him. You can do this right now, simply by telling Him your heart’s desire, through a prayer:

“God, I ask you to forgive me and invite you to enter my heart right now. Thank you, Jesus, for dying for my sins. Thank you for coming into my life as you said you would.”

These are five of the most asked questions about God, but you can find even more answers to great questions about God at everystudent.com. Everyone has questions and we have tried to give answers to the most common ones there.

Do you have a friend who has questions like these, but you do not know how to start the conversation? Read more about how to take the initiative and start a conversation with your friend about what really matters.

Next Step
Ask three students you know what their top questions are about God. Be prepared to share what you've learned here. If you get a different question, research answers and follow up to help them find answers and know God better.

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Valentine’s Day Outreach

Valentine’s Day is a natural moment to invite students into something social, upbeat, and relational. This outreach works well in a home or school setting and is designed to feel more like a party than a program, while still clearly introducing students to your campus ministry and the gospel.

The key is intentional planning with a relaxed atmosphere. Music, refreshments, and friendly Christian students who are actively welcoming new people help set the tone from the moment students arrive.

Outreach Tips

  • Plan ahead. Set the date, confirm the location, and print fliers as early as possible.
  • Delegate. Give leadership roles to students and volunteers whenever you can.
  • Create an atmosphere. Keep things informal and upbeat with music and snacks. Encourage Christian students to seek out new faces.
  • Promote the event (optional). Leadership guys can hand out red roses or carnations to girls, or leadership girls can hand out chocolate kisses. Include a personal invitation the day before the outreach.
  • Obtain prizes. Especially for the Dating Game, nice prizes help boost energy and participation.

Sample Outreach Schedule

  • Mingling and refreshments
  • Welcome (3 minutes)
  • Campus ministry overview from the emcee (3 minutes)
  • Icebreaker: Famous Couples game (10 minutes)
  • Dating Game (20 to 30 minutes)
  • Student testimony with a relationship theme (4 minutes)
  • Relationship talk and gospel presentation (15 to 20 minutes max)
  • Comment cards (7 minutes)
  • Announcements (2 minutes)
  • Refreshments and hanging out (no set time)

The key is intentional planning with a relaxed atmosphere.

Game 1: Famous Couples

Choose an even number of participants and prepare a list of famous couples ahead of time, such as Luke Skywalker and Princess Leia or Romeo and Juliet. Write each name on a 3×5 card and as students enter, tape the name of one character on their back without letting them see it.

Each student may ask up to three yes or no questions per person to figure out who they are. They must also take turns answering questions when asked. The goal is to discover their identity and find their matching partner as quickly as possible. Continue until everyone is matched.

Game 2: The Dating Game

If you don’t have a lot of couples for this game, you could call it the “Best Friend Test” and have them do best friends instead. However, considering this party is about romantic relationships it is obviously better to have romantic couples playing.

This game is similar to the Best Friend Test you’ve probably seen on TikTok or shows like The Circle, or the old Newlywed game. (If you haven’t seen them, check them out). One person answers questions first, then their partner tries to guess what they said.

One partner leaves the room while the questions are asked. The partners in the room write the answers down. Then they come back, hear the same questions, and try to match their partner’s answers. Each correct match earns a point. The pair with the most points wins a prize.

The questions are light, funny, and all about how well you actually know the other person.

Dating Game Questions

For the girls (guys leave the room):

  • Which ice cream flavor best describes your relationship right now: Vanilla, Rocky Road, Peaches and Cream, or Tutti Frutti?
  • On your first date, which animal was he most like: Turtle, Kitten, Tiger, or Octopus?
  • How long have you been going out?
  • What is the most sentimental gift he has given you?

For the guys (girls leave the room):

  • Which Disney character would she say best describes you: Mickey Mouse, The Beast, Goofy, or Winnie the Pooh?
  • What song is “your song”?
  • What did you do on your first date?
  • What is her favorite perfume?
  • Which Valentine’s gift would she most like: candy, flowers, or a kiss?
  • What outfit is she wearing right now?

Optional non-gender questions

  • What is their go-to fast food order?
  • What song would they put on if they needed a hype boost?
  • What stresses them out faster than it should?
  • If they had a free day, how would they spend it?

What is something they are secretly really good at?

While relationships matter deeply to us, they also expose one of our biggest fears, the fear of not being truly loved.

Relationship Talk

Overview

The relationship talk should be short, clear, and serve as a natural bridge to the gospel. Valentine’s Day provides an easy entry point into the idea that everyone is searching for love and meaningful relationships, yet few of us have good models of what lasting love looks like.

This talk introduces the idea that there is a kind of love that lasts, a love that does not depend on performance or appearance, and that love is found in God.

Introduction

Begin with a funny or embarrassing dating story to lower defenses and help students relate.

The Talk

Relationships take a lot of time and energy, whether with parents, friends, coworkers, or romantic partners. While relationships matter deeply to us, they also expose one of our biggest fears, the fear of not being truly loved.

Psychologists often describe our greatest need as the need to love and be loved. At the same time, our greatest fear is that if people really knew us, they would reject us. Because of this, many of us wear masks and show only what we think others want to see.

Even people who care about us deeply can disappoint or reject us when we do not meet their expectations. That pain leaves us asking what real love actually looks like.

There are three common types of love people experience:

  • “I love you if…” love, which is conditional on behavior.
  • “I love you because…” love, which is based on appearance, popularity, or performance.
  • “I love you, period.” love, which is unconditional and unchanging.

What we truly long for is the third kind of love.

One Who Loves No Matter What

That kind of love exists, and it comes from God. God loves people for who they are, not for how they perform or what they offer. He invites us into a real relationship with Him where His love is constant and secure.

From here, transition clearly into the gospel and explain how students can have a relationship with God and experience His unconditional love.

If you’re not sure how to share the gospel, learn how to HERE

Comment Cards

Use a comment card to collect name, address, phone number, school, and grade. Include simple response options for students who received Christ, want more information, or want to get involved with your campus ministry.

Next Step
Plan your Valentine’s Day outreach early and involve student leaders in every step so more students can experience authentic relationships and hear the gospel in a welcoming environment.
Partnering with Other Ministries to Reach Your Campus

Groups like Cru, Young Life, and FCA each have their own strengths and strategies. Students connect with them for different reasons—it’s not “one size fits all.” We love and respect every group that’s helping students know Jesus. We’re on the same team, not in competition.

Here are a few ministries we often serve alongside:

  • Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) – Students gather in “huddles” led by coaches, giving athletes a chance to live out their faith through the sports they love.
  • Young Life – Leaders invest deeply in relationships, earning the right to be heard before sharing the gospel.
  • Church Youth Groups – Churches are a vital part of every community. Many youth leaders volunteer at schools or visit during lunch to connect with students. Cru isn’t a church—we partner with local churches to help students get plugged in.
  • Christian Clubs – Many campuses have Christian Clubs focused on prayer, fellowship, and Bible study. They’re often inward-facing rather than outreach-focused.

Cru’s Approach

We share Christ as soon as we have the chance, then build a network of small group Bible studies. We train students to share their faith—through group outreaches, personal conversations, and larger gatherings.

Why This Matters on Your Campus

When you are starting or growing a ministry, ask, “Who is already here?” Sometimes a group has been serving for years. Sometimes no one is reaching that school yet. Often there is room for more than one group to thrive because no single ministry connects with every student.

If another group is already present, the best move is to connect. Grab coffee with their leader, ask questions, learn what has been working, and listen for their challenges. Your posture matters. Come in as an ally, not a rival.

“We’re not in competition; we’re on the same team.”

Stepping Onto a Campus With Other Ministries

If you launch Cru where another ministry exists, remember these things:

  • Speak well of them in front of students.
  • Avoid scheduling conflicts when possible.
  • Focus on students they are not already reaching.
  • Be willing to partner for events or outreaches.

The goal is not to win students to your ministry. The goal is to help them grow in Jesus.

How to Start the Conversation

Approaching another leader can feel awkward. Keep it simple:

  • Ask how their group is doing at that school.
  • Learn which students they connect with best.
  • Share your heart for students and where Cru could help.
  • Look for ways to collaborate rather than compete.

You may be surprised how often these conversations lead to friendship and partnership.

A Simple Way to Explain Cru

When someone asks what Cru is about, you can say:

Cru is a network of student disciples who see their school as a mission field. We help students grow in their faith through small groups, training conferences, and mission opportunities locally and around the world.

When it comes down to it, no single ministry can reach every student—but together, we can make a much greater impact. Each group brings unique strengths, connections, and opportunities to the table. By cheering each other on, looking for ways to partner, and sharing a heart for teenagers to know and follow Jesus, we multiply our effectiveness. When ministries work side by side instead of in separate lanes, schools see more of Christ’s love, more students hear the gospel, and more lives are transformed for eternity.

Next Step
Reach out to a local campus ministry leader this week and start a conversation about partnering together.
Sydney’s Story

From Grief to Purpose: Finding God in the Storm

Growing up in a Christian home, she always knew about Jesus, but her relationship with Him didn’t feel personal until tragedy struck in eighth grade. Transitioning from homeschooling to public school had already pushed her out of her comfort zone, and anxiety loomed as she struggled to find her place. Then, during the fall of 2020, both her parents contracted COVID. While her mom recovered, her dad’s condition worsened, leading to months of uncertainty. She vividly remembers the day he left for the hospital and the long, heartbreaking journey that followed. Despite moments of hope, her dad passed away on February 20th, 2021. At just 13 years old, she faced the devastating reality of losing her father—a loss that shook her world and her faith.

In the midst of that grief, she began to see God’s hand at work. During sleepless nights and moments of overwhelming sorrow, God surrounded her with people who cared—friends, family, and a community that embodied His love. Though the pain of loss didn’t disappear, she found comfort in the truth that this life is not the end. Inspired by Paul’s words about eternity, she started to see her father’s passing as a reminder of the hope we have in Christ. That hope spurred her to action. On a family mission trip to Thailand, she met students leading Cru groups at their schools, and the seed was planted to start something similar back home. Despite initial uncertainty, God provided resources, opened doors, and brought others alongside her to launch Cru at her school—a ministry that has been thriving for nearly a year now.

"Anxiety loomed as she struggled to find her place."

Her story is one of resilience, faith, and transformation. Through unimaginable grief, she discovered the depth of God’s love and the strength found in trusting Him. The loss of her dad deepened her desire to share Jesus with others, knowing firsthand how essential His presence is in life’s hardest moments. Cru has given her a platform to do just that—to tell others about the God who redeems brokenness and uses ordinary people to do extraordinary things. Her journey reminds us that while pain is inevitable, God is sovereign, faithful, and able to bring beauty from ashes.

Next Step

Check out Christina's Story and consider how God might use an international mission in your or another student's life.

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