Matthew

Matthew grew up in a small town in South Texas, carrying a lot of frustration about himself. By the time he reached high school, he was really struggling with his self-image, which led to a lot of anger—anger at himself and those around him. He tried to fill the emptiness he felt with family and friends, but nothing seemed to work for long. Eventually, he turned to alcohol and drugs. By the time he was 14, he was drinking heavily, and for the next couple of years, his life felt like one endless cycle of bad habits and broken relationships.

Then, something changed. Matthew had a friend named Daniel who stepped in and encouraged him to take a different path. Daniel told him, ‘Hey man, we need to be better for ourselves, for the people around us, and most importantly, for God.’ Those words struck Matthew deeply. He decided to quit drinking and began working to turn his life around. It wasn’t easy. Not long after, Matthew suffered a knee injury that took away his outlet in sports, and he found himself struggling again. But God had other plans. Matthew ended up attending a Cru getaway—a Christian retreat—that gave him a fresh perspective and renewed sense of purpose. Through that experience, Matthew found clarity, direction, and most importantly, a community of believers who supported him every step of the way.

We need to be better for ourselves, for the people around us, and most importantly, for God.

Now, Matthew is thriving. He’s surrounded by friends who push each other to grow in their faith, and he’s committed to helping others find what he’s found in Christ. When he looks back, Matthew says he barely recognizes the person he used to be. His story shows just how powerful God’s grace can be and how much of a difference a caring friend and the right opportunities can make. If you’re feeling lost, remember Matthew’s story: God can use even the toughest times to draw you closer, ignite your spirit, and lead you into a purpose greater than you ever imagined.

Next Step

Using this testimony worksheet, write out your own story and ask God how you can encourage friends to grow in their faith.

TESTIMONY WORKSHEET
Next Step
Who are some students you work with that might make good leaders? Make a list of 5 students and begin praying that God would show you opportunities to help them step into leadership.

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Ask a Coach – Tips from an Expert

Starting a ministry on your campus is an exciting step, but it can also raise a lot of questions. What should you do first? How do you find students who are interested? What if your group is small or things do not go the way you expected?

This is where a coach can help. A campus ministry coach is someone who has experience helping students and leaders start and grow ministries on high school campuses. They listen to what you are facing, help you think through wise next steps, and connect you with helpful tools and resources along the way.

Throughout the Reach Your School Playbook, you will see short insights from coaches who have spent years helping students reach their campuses. This page gathers more of those tips in one place so you can learn from their experience and keep moving forward.

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Coaching Tips

  • Ask a few non-Christian friends how they would respond to your ideas, then process those same questions with Christian friends to sharpen your thinking.

 

  • Evangelism is the engine of your ministry, and helping students influence others is how you build future leaders.

 

  • You don’t have to figure this out alone, there are people with experience who would love to help you gather students and get the word out.

 

  • You have rights on campus, learn them, then live them out with confidence.

 

  • Many people are looking for something bigger than themselves, so give them a vision worth joining.

 

  • You may be walking past someone God is preparing, start a conversation and see what He does.

 

  • Pray Scripture, if God says it, you can pray it, and keep prayers short so more people can participate.

 

  • Invite a coach to join your team early, it will help you move faster and avoid common mistakes.

 

  • Use the tools available to you, there are helpful resources for sponsors, leaders, and teams if you ask.

 

  • When meeting with school leaders, bring others with you so it’s clear you’re building something together.

 

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  • Work with your school, not against it, staff can often help you more than you expect.

 

  • Teams help you reach more people, save time, and build momentum.

 

  • If your school allows non-curricular clubs, they must allow a Christian club too.

 

  • Use tools and visuals that help people remember and apply what they learn.

 

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  • Use social media, simple graphics, and personal invites, everyone plays a role in getting the word out.

 

  • Have a clear process for identifying and developing student leaders.

 

  • Work within school expectations for roles, but organize your team in a way that actually helps you function.

 

  • Start outreach where you already have relationships, teams, clubs, and shared interests.

 

  • Use response cards or forms to follow up, gather feedback, and invite people into next steps.

 

  • If God is nudging you to take a step, go for it, but bring others with you.

 

  • Parents can be powerful allies, don’t be afraid to involve them.

 

  • Always have a next step ready so you can invite people while they’re still engaged.

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Do you have any questions for our coaches? If so, ask your question here, or request a coach for your ministry by emailing us at coachingcenter@cru.org!

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